In short, this means chains, whips, being tied up, tying up someone else, spanking, role playing, domination, submission, safe words, leather outfits, consensual pain, pleasure though pain, pleasure through risqué social relationships, pleasure through power, pleasure through the lack of power, paddles, rope, orgasm control, dungeons, anal plugs, kinky toys, blindfolds and a whole host of other elements. Having a female muscle fetish also means you’re into BDSM.īDSM, for those of you who don’t know what this means, is an acronym for Bondage, Discipline (it could also be Domination) and Sadomasochism. Great! I could write a whole essay describing the beauty of Denise Masino. I’m not saying you should agree with me, but you should accept this fixation of mine and move on with your life. My personal standards for female beauty are my own. They’re WOMEN who are BEAUTIFUL by standards that happen to be outside of the norm. I’m attracted to these women (and scores of others) because they’re beautiful women regardless if their beauty is or is not commonly accepted among the general population. I do, however, have many fantasies about being intimate with women like Gayle Moher, Tazzie Colomb, Ericca Kern and Angela Salvagno. I’m heterosexual and have no desire to be intimate with a guy. If my understanding of sexuality is correct, gay men are attracted to OTHER MEN, not women. He’s not really straight, but instead a fabulously gay man ready to burst out of the closet with two chiseled female bodybuilders sitting on his shoulders. There’s this belief out there that straight men who love a female with brawn is somehow living a lie. Straight men who are attracted to muscular women are secretly gay. Nevertheless, let’s delve into ten common misconceptions about having a female muscle fetish that we should clear up in anticipation of a complete social paradigm shift in how we define “sexy.” I’d go to the gym more often if women like Ericca Kern were hanging around the weight room.ġ. Is it so strange to finally admit something that was once “taboo” the moment it becomes mainstream? I would hope not.īut seeing muscular women walk down the streets in droves is far from a reality and probably will never become commonplace (though one does hope and pray!) in my lifetime. So, once we see more ladies pump iron in the weight room, perhaps this will lead more and more straight guys (and non-straight guys, to be fair) to openly admit that a women with muscle isn’t gross, but beautiful. Which demographic almost always dominates the weight room at your gym? Men. Face it: You all know what I’m talking about. Maybe someday we’ll actually see more muscular women in everyday society once we get past the irrational concept that women can’t lift weights in the gym like guys do. Is starving yourself in order to achieve that rail thin look good for your body? The answer, of course, is a resounding NO. I’m also willing to bet the recent debate about healthcare will also spur some further dialogue about the health of our country and what it means to be healthy. After all, I do sense a somewhat significant backlash against the “skinny is beautiful” aesthetic that we’ve all grown accustomed to seeing. 15.I’d like to think that one day it’ll become more acceptable to being attracted to muscular women.
Whatever you decide to do, analyze where your relationship is at and apply the things that might work in your favor. Some of these you might find surprisingly easy to do such as growing a little bit of a short beard or just buying a box of chocolates. In randomized studies, they’ve gathered the facts of what traits women are most likely to find attractive in men.
Here, we’re going turn to the experts who have done the dirty work for us. It’s time to polish your image and really stand out. So if your old tactics haven’t worked, then it’s time to kick them to the curb and start thinking differently. And I’m not saying that you need to completely change yourself, but rather that you want to attempt to be a better version of you because that special someone is worth it. It’s not fair when you consider things like height that you can’t change regardless of how hard you try (even plastic surgery can’t make you taller). Can’t seem to attract the attention of that special someone? Why not try applying some of the things that really matter – things that are scientifically proven to attract women.